I CHALLENGE YOU...

I LOVE client feedback and was (somewhat sternly) reminded by a client the other day that it's been a good while since I've posted a challenge.  She told me how much she likes them because they get her to do things she may not normally readily do...
So, Jasmin, this one's for you...

Ok so a while back I had a "misunderstanding," with someone I was very close to.  Ok ok, I admit it pride and ego definitely got the best of me (happens to the best of us) and in a moment of hurt, I said something I didn't mean; something that implied something else, ya know like, "I probably wouldn't miss you if you weren't in my life."  It has bothered me a lot and for a long time that I misrepresented myself like that, as I try to be "impeccable with my word," (by not saying anything I don't mean) not to mention, I really missed him.   Well, the other day, I saw something that reminded me of him and in that moment, I decided it was ridiculous to lose a friend to pride and ego.  So I texted him.  Real simple, real honest, "I didn't mean what I said.  I miss you."  He responded immediately and we had dinner the other night and we are all good again.

YOUR CHALLENGE - Reach out to someone you said something you regret to or had a falling out with especially if your words or actions are the reason for the falling out.  Own it and take responsibility.

LISTEN UP PEEPS... It's not worth losing someone valuable.  Pride and ego will only isolate you and make you believe it's no big deal or it's better this way and leave no room for love.  Pride and ego are products of fear and where there is fear there can not be love.  I say choose love!

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